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SHY

The Alarmingly Outspoken Memoirs of Mary Rodgers

by Mary Rodgers & Jesse Green

Pub Date: Aug. 9th, 2022
ISBN: 978-0-374-29862-3
Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux

A legendary figure of American musical theater narrates her life and her career in startlingly frank terms.

Rodgers moved in theater circles nearly her entire life (1931-2014). Her remembrances are lively, witty, honest, and "dishy" regarding a host of boldfaced names, both those she loved and those she hated. New York Times chief theater critic Green's annotations fill out the history and offer helpful fact-checks. Daughter of composer Richard Rodgers and mother of composer Adam Guettel, Mary, also a composer, surrounded herself with talent. As an adolescent girl, she played word games with lifelong friend Stephen Sondheim; as a teenager, she dated Hal Prince. She served as an assistant for 14 years for the New York Philharmonic’s Young People's Concerts program, and always she found Leonard Bernstein "fascinating." Carol Burnett found her breakthrough role in Rodgers' Once Upon a Mattress, while Judy Holliday bombed in Hot Spot. Rodgers was also the author of classic children's books, including Freaky Friday, and became a leading "philanthropeuse" of New York society, including seven years as chairman of the board of the Julliard School. She takes us inside the "romance"-like nature of collaborating on a musical. The "erotic part of songwriting," she writes, is "the way you mate words with music." She also writes movingly and with "knee-jerk transparency” about parental neglect ("I doubt either of my parents really even wanted to have children"), adultery, rampant alcoholism, and other dark sides of her artistic circles. Her first marriage was a mistake, though "everyone should marry a gay man at least once." Rodgers also endured an abortion and the death of a child. Some of her anecdotes seem like more family lore than lived history—e.g., at Mary's birth, her mother told the nurse, "Take her away and bring her back when she looks younger”—but most of her stories are revelatory and often hilarious. "I broke a lot of rules," she admits, "but they weren't mine."

A Broadway tell-all that deserves to become a classic of music theater lore.