LOOSE THREADS

A look at death, grief, and the messy emotions they evoke.

Readers are informed that this story “is intended to be read aloud by an adult to a child.” Six key points are outlined on how to do so. Then we meet our young protagonist and her parents, all tan-skinned. Mom loves sewing stuffed toys with her daughter, who narrates, but she soon gets sick and passes away. Grief gets buried, the father and child grow distant from each other, and Mom’s belongings are tucked into boxes. A ball of yarn, its threads coming undone, proves a helpful metaphor for the girl’s feelings. Only when she screams, “I WANT IT TO BE LIKE IT WAS BEFORE!” does Dad intercede, and the two begin the healing process together. The bulk of the book wraps itself in the girl’s isolation and misery, only coming to practical advice and heartfelt platitudes in the last few pages. Backmatter asks readers to reflect on their own feelings. Earnest though a bit didactic, the book is buoyed by the skillful illustrations, which visualize vigorous and strong emotions. Originally published in Belgium and the Netherlands and translated from Dutch, the story would have benefitted from concentrating more on how the girl and her father intend to rebuild their relationship. Nonetheless, for those experiencing similar situations, the book offers a map for unmarked territory.

There is no playbook for mourning, but this tale provides a gentle guide for the unthinkable.