WHEN WE GROW UP

Six friends travel to Hawaii to celebrate their 30th birthdays and, after dodging imminent death, spend their time together drinking, bickering, reaching for one another, and investigating their years of interconnection.

Clare, Kyle, Renzo, Mac, Jessie, and Liam have known one another since seventh grade in L.A. They’ve fallen in and out of friendship and love with one another and have emerged as a (sometimes begrudgingly) inseparable unit. On this particular reunion in January 2018, they’ve gathered in Kyle’s parents’ second home on the island of Kaua‘i, planning to spend the week in full-on vacation mode. Then comes an emergency text advisory: “Ballistic missile threat inbound to Hawai‘i…This is not a drill.” After a few pages of watching the characters panic, we learn that the message was human error. The group feels its aftershocks long after that morning, though, and the anxiety it sows feeds the interpersonal reckonings that follow. Much of the richness in this novel is found in the conversations among the friends, which extend from their shared history and personal lives to politics, race, and class. Hawaii is a fitting backdrop for the more political conversations, but the relationship between the group and the land is not as fully fleshed-out as the friends’ grudges and crushes. The main protagonist, Clare, spends much of the book reminiscing on years past and chewing over her writing career, marriage to her college sweetheart, and relationship with each member of the group. Baker beautifully expresses the pressures of growing older while not feeling older, as well as the comfort of being with people who knew you as an adolescent—when you were unformed and naive, as you might still feel from time to time. “When you’ve known people this long,” Clare thinks, “when you knew them in middle school, knew their mothers and their childhood bedrooms, you can always see the ghosts at their shoulders.”

A delayed coming-of-age story that’s both perceptive and absorbing.