An unfiltered, invitingly irreverent look at what it means to be an adult caretaker.
Eastman’s memoir details the realities of caring for an elderly parent.
In a series of essays, the author tells the story of looking after her father while he was in his 80s. This was a man who, in his younger days, worked as a chemist for General Electric and was known for his sense of humor; per Eastman, he “saw every problem as an opportunity to fix and make things better.” However, in his later years he could no longer care for himself. He required regular doctor’s visits, a strict diet, and help with simple tasks. (As she says of this time, “When his day starts, so does mine.”) This book takes a close look at the quotidian routines and the struggles of elder care—everyday incidents in which the author’s father might do something like unknowingly put the television on maximum volume and then become defensive over his actions. Then there were outside pressures; Eastman writes of dealing with Medicare concerning how long one is allowed to stay in a hospital: “When Medicare says they’re done covering your stay, you’re done.” The narrative includes humorous situations as well—at one point, the author’s father told a therapist that she had called him “skanky” when in fact, after some consideration, it seemed he actually meant “snarky.” As readers might expect, dealing with an aging parent is no pleasure cruise—the book does not sugarcoat the difficulties. Eastman learned firsthand how “there just aren’t many solutions in our current culture or societal construction to appropriately care for our elders.” Even with the occasional comic relief, readers come to understand just how tough it can be. Some aspects of this toughness are, however, mentioned more than once in different essays (the author relates on multiple occasions how, at one point, her father broke his ankle). Though such repetition can disrupt the flow of the essays, it does not diminish the unglamorous, punchy portrayal of Eastman’s experience.
An unfiltered, invitingly irreverent look at what it means to be an adult caretaker.Pub Date: Sept. 17, 2024
ISBN: 978-1647427184
Page Count: 168
Publisher: She Writes Press
Review Posted Online: June 28, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 15, 2024
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A blissfully vicarious, heartfelt glimpse into the life of a Manhattan burlesque dancer.
A former New York City dancer reflects on her zesty heyday in the 1970s.
Discovered on a Manhattan street in 2020 and introduced on Stanton’s Humans of New York Instagram page, Johnson, then 76, shares her dynamic history as a “fiercely independent” Black burlesque dancer who used the stage name Tanqueray and became a celebrated fixture in midtown adult theaters. “I was the only black girl making white girl money,” she boasts, telling a vibrant story about sex and struggle in a bygone era. Frank and unapologetic, Johnson vividly captures aspects of her former life as a stage seductress shimmying to blues tracks during 18-minute sets or sewing lingerie for plus-sized dancers. Though her work was far from the Broadway shows she dreamed about, it eventually became all about the nightly hustle to simply survive. Her anecdotes are humorous, heartfelt, and supremely captivating, recounted with the passion of a true survivor and the acerbic wit of a weathered, street-wise New Yorker. She shares stories of growing up in an abusive household in Albany in the 1940s, a teenage pregnancy, and prison time for robbery as nonchalantly as she recalls selling rhinestone G-strings to prostitutes to make them sparkle in the headlights of passing cars. Complemented by an array of revealing personal photographs, the narrative alternates between heartfelt nostalgia about the seedier side of Manhattan’s go-go scene and funny quips about her unconventional stage performances. Encounters with a variety of hardworking dancers, drag queens, and pimps, plus an account of the complexities of a first love with a drug-addled hustler, fill out the memoir with personality and candor. With a narrative assist from Stanton, the result is a consistently titillating and often moving story of human struggle as well as an insider glimpse into the days when Times Square was considered the Big Apple’s gloriously unpolished underbelly. The book also includes Yee’s lush watercolor illustrations.
A blissfully vicarious, heartfelt glimpse into the life of a Manhattan burlesque dancer.Pub Date: July 12, 2022
ISBN: 978-1-250-27827-2
Page Count: 192
Publisher: St. Martin's
Review Posted Online: July 27, 2022
Essential reading for any Twain buff and student of American literature.
A decidedly warts-and-all portrait of the man many consider to be America’s greatest writer.
It makes sense that distinguished biographer Chernow (Washington: A Life and Alexander Hamilton) has followed up his life of Ulysses S. Grant with one of Mark Twain: Twain, after all, pulled Grant out of near bankruptcy by publishing the ex-president’s Civil War memoir under extremely favorable royalty terms. The act reflected Twain’s inborn generosity and his near pathological fear of poverty, the prime mover for the constant activity that characterized the author’s life. As Chernow writes, Twain was “a protean figure who played the role of printer, pilot, miner, journalist, novelist, platform artist, toastmaster, publisher, art patron, pundit, polemicist, inventor, crusader, investor, and maverick.” He was also slippery: Twain left his beloved Mississippi River for the Nevada gold fields as a deserter from the Confederate militia, moved farther west to California to avoid being jailed for feuding, took up his pseudonym to stay a step ahead of anyone looking for Samuel Clemens, especially creditors. Twain’s flaws were many in his own day. Problematic in our own time is a casual racism that faded as he grew older (charting that “evolution in matters of racial tolerance” is one of the great strengths of Chernow’s book). Harder to explain away is Twain’s well-known but discomfiting attraction to adolescent and even preadolescent girls, recruiting “angel-fish” to keep him company and angrily declaring when asked, “It isn’t the public’s affair.” While Twain emerges from Chernow’s pages as the masterful—if sometimes wrathful and vengeful—writer that he is now widely recognized to be, he had other complexities, among them a certain gullibility as a businessman that kept that much-feared poverty often close to his door, as well as an overarchingly gloomy view of the human condition that seemed incongruous with his reputation, then and now, as a humanist.
Essential reading for any Twain buff and student of American literature.Pub Date: May 13, 2025
ISBN: 9780525561729
Page Count: 1200
Publisher: Penguin Press
Review Posted Online: Feb. 1, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2025
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