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LEAVE OUT THE TRAGIC PARTS by Dave Kindred

LEAVE OUT THE TRAGIC PARTS

A Grandfather's Search for a Boy Lost to Addiction

by Dave Kindred

Pub Date: Feb. 2nd, 2021
ISBN: 978-1-5417-5706-6
Publisher: PublicAffairs

A veteran sportswriter explores his grandson’s addiction and how he became “one of those wanderers whose lives are a mystery and a bafflement, an undoable jigsaw puzzle.”

This is a love letter of sorts, from a grandfather whose work made him a Hall of Fame sportswriter to a grandson who rode trains to a form of freedom until he couldn’t ride anymore. Kindred had a soft spot for Jared since his birth, and he watched him grow up as a sensitive kid from a broken home. As he got older, Jared became “Goblin,” free-spirited train-hopper who made a life riding the rails, “flying sign” (holding up a cardboard sign asking for money), and abusing alcohol and drugs. Kindred writes with an impressive combination of journalistic detachment and grandfatherly love. He shows genuine curiosity about the ways of the hobo code and growing alarm at the hell through which Jared put his body as his trips to the hospital became more frequent. It’s clear the author wanted to help, but he also wanted to understand, partly because that’s what his training taught him but mostly because of his genuine love for Jared. Like Kindred, readers may want to reach through the page and tell Jared that he’s heading to an early grave, and they will also be fascinated by Jared’s viewpoints on various locales—e.g., “New Orleans is heaven for travelin’ kids. It’s practically illegal to be sober on the city streets, and diners at fancy restaurants hand out their white-box leftovers.” Kindred also gets introspective as he traces multiple generations of men in the family, from the author’s father, a stoic veteran who died young; to Jared’s dad, Jeff, who faced his own pressures as a parent; to Jared, at home only when he’s crisscrossing the land in boxcars. The book mostly leaves out the tragic parts, and the author doesn’t sugarcoat the protagonist's tale.

Kindred approaches a difficult story with love and curiosity rather than sentimentality.