HOW TO MAKE A MEMORY

Saying goodbye isn’t easy.

Life is always moving along, and that “means that someday / something you love will come to an end / and it will be time to say goodbye.” Acknowledging that transitions can be sad (one spread shows a child grieving a dog and later bidding farewell to the pet during a beach ceremony), Vickers uses easily recognizable events and activities to craft a child-centered message: Readers can make memories of happy moments to look back on later. They can take photos, draw pictures, write stories, or even use their mind’s eye to commit events to memory; for this last one, the accompanying illustration shows scenes from a fabulous birthday party worth remembering. Children also learn that sometimes memories have a way of emerging on their own, summoned by a familiar song or scent. And sometimes they return when a child is sitting quietly on their own. Readers are asked, when they are ready, to imagine all their memories and recognize how they define them and give them strength for the future. Finally, they are reminded that even though something they love has come to an end, their story and their memories continue. Aranda’s vibrant spreads, suffused with rich hues that convey characters’ various emotions, depict racially diverse and generally joyful children and adults. (This book was reviewed digitally.)

Multisensory suggestions to help children transform difficult moments into something positive.