LOVE LOCKDOWN

Compassionate inquiry into the hidden phenomena of prison relationships, particularly the “MWI” (Met While Incarcerated) demographic.

Greenwood was inspired by her own correspondence with a jailed white-collar criminal she met researching her first book, Playing Dead: “Could you find love and vivacity in the ugliest of places? And what are the prisons we erect for ourselves?” She frames these inquiries against the grim reality of this country’s incarceration rate (the highest in the world) and its disproportionate effect on poorer individuals and communities of color. At the same time, the author observes that MWI “prison wives” are often middle-class Whites who are drawn to church service groups or prisoner pen-pal websites, a phenomenon that serves as an example of the complex social realities uncovered here. Greenwood opens with the marriage of ex-soldier Jo to Benny, an affable recidivist with a disturbing background of domestic violence, and alternates between the arc of their tumultuous, ultimately successful union and those of several other couples. These include a retired Canadian diplomat who wed and then split from an American woman convicted of murder, a trans woman and a bisexual African American man serving time in the same institution, and a couple who stayed together following the prisoner’s wrongful conviction being overturned, who “still came home with all the trauma of anyone who has spent almost half his life in prison.” The resilience of MWI spouses is personified throughout by Jo, who observes, “I don’t have any problem waiting for him to come home from prison. Because he’s my husband.” Greenwood makes good use of interviews with prisoners, academics, and others, and the writing is observant, humorous, and even sensuous, as when the author and Jo attend a conference for prisoners’ families and hear frank talk about the realities of frustration and conjugal visits. “For once, they are in a place where people understand,” writes the author. “They needn’t pretend or defend.”

An empathetic and well-characterized book that will add complexity to debates about mass incarceration.