A knowledgeable, enthusiastic guide packed with strategies and encouragement.
A wide-ranging guide to enjoying college in the 21st century.
In his nonfiction debut, Felix draws on the extensive work he’s done with dozens of colleges and interviews he’s conducted with all kinds of students in order to present his readers with a vast amount of practical and personal information broken down into three broad categories: what you need to know before you go, general advice, and more pointed advice to meet the special needs of certain students—all with the aim of maximizing the value everyone can get out of “courses, campus, community, and career.” He notes, for example, how students with disabilities can get the necessary accommodations: “Many accessibility offices can be particularly helpful with the transition to college by orienting you to placement exams, housing options, and your school’s policies and processes—it’s really never too early to get in touch.” Each well-organized chapter includes bulleted points, tips, lined blank spaces for responses to discussion questions, and an ample list of references for further reading. Felix both instructs and supports his readers, reminding them to be patient with important social elements like fitting in or finding friends. He details the benefits and challenges of things like clubs, class projects, sports teams, and other group activities, and he lays out the basics of residence halls. He uses a vibrant, friendly prose style keyed to reduce the intimidation factor of college, and he consistently reassures his readers that “colleges and universities are full of people who want to help you….They are there for the mission and they are there for you.” The resulting atmosphere in the book is one of an open, confidential chat with a sympathetic expert on every aspect of university life. Particularly refreshing is Felix’s emphasis on the potential value of college: In addition to a degree, the college experience should also provide a “guided pathway” to a career.
A knowledgeable, enthusiastic guide packed with strategies and encouragement.Pub Date: Jan. 10, 2022
ISBN: 9781735810768
Page Count: 246
Publisher: ThriveU Press
Review Posted Online: Feb. 16, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 15, 2023
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.
The late actor offers a gentle guide for living with more purpose, love, and joy.
Mixing poetry, prescriptive challenges, and elements of memoir, Heche (1969-2022) delivers a narrative that is more encouraging workbook than life story. The author wants to share what she has discovered over the course of a life filled with abuse, advocacy, and uncanny turning points. Her greatest discovery? Love. “Open yourself up to love and transform kindness from a feeling you extend to those around you to actions that you perform for them,” she writes. “Only by caring can we open ourselves up to the universe, and only by opening up to the universe can we fully experience all the wonders that it holds, the greatest of which is love.” Throughout the occasionally overwrought text, Heche is heavy on the concept of care. She wants us to experience joy as she does, and she provides a road map for how to get there. Instead of slinking away from Hollywood and the ridicule that she endured there, Heche found the good and hung on, with Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford starring as particularly shining knights in her story. Some readers may dismiss this material as vapid Hollywood stuff, but Heche’s perspective is an empathetic blend of Buddhism (minimize suffering), dialectical behavioral therapy (tolerating distress), Christianity (do unto others), and pre-Socratic philosophy (sufficient reason). “You’re not out to change the whole world, but to increase the levels of love and kindness in the world, drop by drop,” she writes. “Over time, these actions wear away the coldness, hate, and indifference around us as surely as water slowly wearing away stone.” Readers grieving her loss will take solace knowing that she lived her love-filled life on her own terms. Heche’s business and podcast partner, Heather Duffy, writes the epilogue, closing the book on a life well lived.
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.Pub Date: Jan. 24, 2023
ISBN: 9781627783316
Page Count: 176
Publisher: Viva Editions
Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2023
Perhaps not magic but appealing nonetheless.
Want to get ahead in business? Consult a dictionary.
By Wharton School professor Berger’s account, much of the art of persuasion lies in the art of choosing the right word. Want to jump ahead of others waiting in line to use a photocopy machine, even if they’re grizzled New Yorkers? Throw a because into the equation (“Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine, because I’m in a rush?”), and you’re likely to get your way. Want someone to do your copying for you? Then change your verbs to nouns: not “Can you help me?” but “Can you be a helper?” As Berger notes, there’s a subtle psychological shift at play when a person becomes not a mere instrument in helping but instead acquires an identity as a helper. It’s the little things, one supposes, and the author offers some interesting strategies that eager readers will want to try out. Instead of alienating a listener with the omniscient should, as in “You should do this,” try could instead: “Well, you could…” induces all concerned “to recognize that there might be other possibilities.” Berger’s counsel that one should use abstractions contradicts his admonition to use concrete language, and it doesn’t help matters to say that each is appropriate to a particular situation, while grammarians will wince at his suggestion that a nerve-calming exercise to “try talking to yourself in the third person (‘You can do it!’)” in fact invokes the second person. Still, there are plenty of useful insights, particularly for students of advertising and public speaking. It’s intriguing to note that appeals to God are less effective in securing a loan than a simple affirmative such as “I pay all bills…on time”), and it’s helpful to keep in mind that “the right words used at the right time can have immense power.”
Perhaps not magic but appealing nonetheless.Pub Date: March 7, 2023
ISBN: 9780063204935
Page Count: 256
Publisher: Harper Business
Review Posted Online: March 23, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 15, 2023
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