The founding pastor of St. Lydia’s dinner church in Brooklyn reflects on her eight years ministering to a progressive, diverse, and LGBTQ–affirming congregation.
In this intimate and openly heartfelt debut memoir, Scott explores the power of faith and community as strength-building resources for navigating difficult times. The author recalls her efforts in forming a unique church setting that aspired to welcome a diverse community and offer unconventional means of worship: sharing meals around a dinner table. At first, Scott tested her vision at temporary venues throughout the city, with small groups of worshippers, before landing a permanent location in the Gowanus neighborhood in Brooklyn. Throughout the book, the author shares stories of the assorted individuals who were drawn to St. Lydia’s and their unified quest to meaningfully connect with the needs of their neighborhood, including the nearby public housing units. Pivotal experiences—e.g., Hurricane Sandy and the police shootings of unarmed black youths—motivated them toward direct social action within their community, serving to further bolster their ties as a congregation. Scott’s intimately transparent voice and reflections on faith are what drive her compelling narrative. Throughout, she references scriptural texts and offers enlightened interpretation of the individual stories. She’s equally relatable and forthright in exposing her own vulnerabilities and loneliness as a single woman living in the city along with her responsibilities and insecurities ministering to the needs of her congregants. “This is a story about how bread, broken and passed from hand to hand, rescued me from my aloneness,” she writes. “Perhaps you’ve been alone as well, and need to be reminded that, despite all evidence to the contrary, your aloneness will not last forever. When I think of what our church made together, I think of those small beacons of light reminding you that even if you haven’t found it yet, there is a shore somewhere, and you won’t drown in these depths.” Scott delivers a moving personal memoir and an accessibly reverent meditation on finding faith through unconventional acts of worship.
Highly inspiring for anyone seeking solace in our modern world.