A lawyer and entrepreneur details her experiences growing up in the Children of God as the granddaughter of its founder, David Berg.
Serving God was all Jones knew in a home dominated by a missionary father who ruled his two wives and children with a strict hand. Members of a secretive Christian sect that called itself the Family, the author’s parents warned of interactions with “Systemites,” nonbelievers who wanted “to stop them from doing the Lord’s work.” That “work,” as defined by her “Prophet” grandfather, Berg, was to save souls through the Law of Love, which legitimized sex outside of marriage, justified polygamy, and made all women—including young girls—the sexual property of Family men. Jones, her family, and other church members lived apart from society “like [sexualized] nuns and monks” who witnessed and participated in sex acts from an early age. Berg’s communications to his followers became increasingly “militaristic about putting God first” over time as Family leadership crumbled. By the time Jones entered adolescence, couples and families (including the author’s own) were split apart, and Jones was forced to move from her home base in Macau to Thailand, the U.S., Kazakhstan, and, later, China. The author began to question the Family and its patriarchal doctrines, especially concerning teen marriage, which made her the target of abusive treatment meant to coerce her into subservience. Education and a love of learning became the road to freedom, and Jones attended Georgetown and UC Berkeley Law School and eventually reconciled with her parents. “It takes my parents more than a decade after leaving the Family before they are willing and able to admit they were wrong,” she writes. Complex and richly detailed, the book provides fascinating insights into a secretive religious organization while offering often heartbreaking details about the nature and repercussions of growing up indoctrinated in a cult.
A powerful and disturbing memoir.