THE BEAUTY OF DUSK

How losing sight in one eye launched Bruni into an uplifting exploration of human potential.

Bruni, longtime journalist and New York Times restaurant reviewer and op-ed columnist, now a professor at Duke, warns readers to "brace yourself for a boatload of clichés and jump ship if they're going to bother you.” As he notes, greener grass, silver linings, and making lemonade from lemons are just "down-market analogues of insights,” many of which he experienced after a stroke in his sleep left him functionally half blind. Some of his account of how he dealt with this infirmity is intriguing, and some feels like sentimental, self-help happy talk gone off the deep end (a problem that characterized some sections of his previous memoir, Born Round). In one chapter, Bruni uses the suicides of his much-envied colleague Anthony Bourdain (Bruni’s discussion of Bourdain is excellent) and designer Kate Spade to advance his theory of “sandwich boards”: We have no idea what other people are going through; if only we wore signs listing our hidden troubles. Being alert to those sandwich boards and being able to “recast limits" and "reconceptualize loss” are “the overlapping three pillars of perspective,” which is the ultimate saving grace. During the writing process, the author spent time documenting “starfish,” people who discover new abilities after losing others, like a starfish grows back a new arm after losing one—e.g., deaf composers and blind photographers. The author also discovered a little starfish in himself, locating a dropped phone in a thicket in pitch-dark Central Park. Bruni also explores some of the positive sides of aging: Look at Nancy Pelosi and Ruth Bader Ginsburg! Joe Biden, whom Bruni attacked during the campaign as too old, is now revealed as wiser and less awkwardly garrulous.

An uneven but poignant, often wise look at how nearly everything bad that happens to us can actually be good. So cheer up.