HOW TO BE A DIFFICULT BITCH

An illustrated self-empowerment manual for teens.

A bitch, according to Bondy’s introduction, is a powerhouse, an agent of change who threatens the status quo in service of their personal well-being and for the greater good. The Difficult Bitch commandments read, in part, that Difficult Bitches shall “break boundaries for a better world,” “stand up for themselves,” and “own up,” and shall not “worry about haters,” “back down,” or “be petty.” Bondy and her co-authors are thorough and intentional about addressing the particular experiences and concerns of people of color and people with disabilities. They write that “people of any gender identity can be a Difficult Bitch and take the advice in this book.” And what great, comprehensive advice it is. This slim volume packs a lot of wisdom, with chapters on body image; school; stress; internet safety; pursuing extracurricular passions; and more. The chapter on activism is a standout, as is the one covering money, employment, entrepreneurship, and personal finance. Every topic is presented with sections labeled “hypothetical,” real-world scenarios followed by guidance that reflects the nuance and complexity of situations teens may find themselves in. The authors explore these critical topics in frank, compelling, and humorous ways. They address issues that matter to teen girls with deep empathy and age-appropriate language and without being condescending or preachy.

A thoughtful, engaging, bad-ass crash course in moxie, self-confidence, and self-love.