HOW TO FALL OUT OF LOVE MADLY

Three young women come to terms with the roles of the men in their lives and the sad fact that they put them there.

“I can’t hear them having sex, but I did hear her say one time, ‘There’s no way I’m doing that.’ And I can’t help but wonder what it is she doesn’t want to do....And if she won’t do it, would I? I don’t think so, but when she said that I wanted to scream out and say, ‘I’ll do it!’ ” This is Joy, who is hopelessly in love with her roommate Theo, who has an exquisitely beautiful girlfriend named Celine who frequently stays over and...yeah. In an even-more-impressive continuation of the work she began with her debut, The Girl Who Never Read Noam Chomsky (2018), Casale has again taken the detritus of women's inner lives—the things we wished had never happened, the thoughts we wished we'd never had, the endless self-flagellation about our bodies—and made something funny, warm, and compelling; something sisterly in the finest sense of the word. Joy and her roommate, Annie, take Theo as a third housemate to help make ends meet, but then Annie’s boyfriend, Jason, invites her to move in with him. This would be more of a win if Annie didn't have to manage every single interaction she has with Jason to avoid irritating him, asking something of him, or frightening him off. In one bitterly funny scene, he lights up the whole house with candles in order to tell her he’s not ready to get married but someday he will be. Casale’s narrative voice is deadpan, funny, and clean without being faux flat or pretentious. She controls the narrative not seamlessly but with interesting flexes of the storytelling muscle. Sometimes she tells you what's going on from a God’s-eye view. “This is where Joy could have spared herself.” “Here was where so much came together for Annie.” Other times she lets us directly into the women’s internal monologues, with first-person sections. The most fascinating of these belongs to Celine, a person who has to live with being so attractive that it’s all anyone can ever think about.

Casale is an American Sally Rooney, so smart about friendship and love.