NEARLY EXACTLY ALMOST LIKE ME

Dev, who was adopted, may not resemble his big sibling, but there’s plenty that the two do share.

As the older child, who narrates, waits in line for the ice cream truck, Dev joins his big sibling. “No cuts!” says another kid. “He’s my brother,” replies the protagonist, but the other kid looks skeptical. “We don’t share the same skin color, plus my hair is curly and his is not.” But, as the narrator informs readers, the two have many commonalities. Their parents eagerly awaited both children’s arrival; the accompanying illustrations depict them gazing at an ultrasound image of the unborn protagonist and at photos of Dev as a baby just before they traveled overseas to bring him home. Both took swim classes as babies, threw up on the rug after overeating on Valentine’s Day, and adore their trampoline. Without lingering on or dismissing how hurtful it can be to have adoptive relationships questioned, especially when one doesn’t look like one’s adoptive family, the story focuses on the siblings’ loving bond. AuYeung’s expressive illustrations cleverly work with the narrative to show how the children differ while highlighting how much they have in common. The children’s mother is brown-skinned, their father presents East Asian, the protagonist is biracial, and hints in the text and art suggest that Dev is of South Asian descent.

A sweet exploration of the familial similarities that matter.