THE WONDER PARADOX

A guide to finding meaning and connection through poetry.

Poet and historian Hecht, author of Doubt and The Happiness Myth, launches an ambitious investigation into how spiritually inclined nonbelievers seeking a meaningful alternative to organized religion’s dogma can find it in poetry. “Many of us who are happy to live outside religion still suffer from a lack of things religion gives its members,” writes the author. “It seems to me the remedy to this suffering is a shift in the way we think about ritual and the poetry of our lives.” In laying out the possibilities, she writes, “I want to tempt you to compile a clutch of poems for holidays, events, practices, and emergencies. I’ll show you how to gather and get to know them, how to take them into your daily life and your heart.” Throughout 20 thematically focused chapters—e.g., “On Decisions,” “On Weddings,” “On Coming-of-Age”—Hecht shares anecdotal stories from a wide variety of individuals. As each reflects on their specific struggles or dissatisfaction, the author offers a particular poem as a balm. Though somewhat random, Hecht’s poetry selection is expansive, ranging across centuries and cultures. Among the dozens of poets she enlists are Rumi, Rilke, Samuel Taylor Coleridge, Robert Frost, Pablo Neruda, Maya Angelou, and Joy Harjo. Hecht’s premise is thought-provoking and intriguing, and the book will appeal to avid readers of Elizabeth Gilbert, Julia Cameron, Anne Lamott, and similar authors. However, Hecht’s writing often lacks those writers’ grounded, open-hearted clarity, and the text, though studded with insightful commentary, often wavers unevenly between conversational guidance and abstruse rumination. “I think if we want to know ourselves and the world we are floating in, we have to risk swimming out past the breaking waves,” she writes. “It’s deep out there, but to switch metaphors, the task is not to solve anything, but to find out what happens when we try to live the questions.”

For spiritual seekers, a loosely inspirational invitation to reconsider the role of poetry in life.