BEAT ME WITH YOUR WORDS

In Dee’s novel, a woman contends with an emotionally manipulative husband.

Sweet, shy Emily Grace Davidson doesn’t have many friends, but she “was born with innate confidence and creativity that kept [her] reading and exploring all kinds of fascinating subjects.” She’s a hard worker and dreams of becoming a fashion designer, but she sublimates her career goals and aspirations when she meets the handsome Blake Denton. “I knew he was ‘the one’ ” she narrates—a concept that may have been inspired by the fact that she “grew up on Disney princesses and soap operas.” Their courtship is slow to start, but once they begin dating in earnest, Emily is smitten. There are elements to Blake’s personality, including his deep insecurity, that give Emily pause, but she devotes herself to him entirely and tells him details about her previous relationships. Blake wins over Emily’s entire family, but she finds herself spending more time with him until he’s her sole comforter and confidant. More warning signs appear, which she refuses to heed, including trouble with money, dishonesty, and a lack of sexual intimacy. Determined not to give up on the man of her dreams, she gets pulled deeper into Blake’s emotional manipulations until it’s unclear if she’ll ever be able to dig herself out. Dee dedicates her novel to “every victim and every survivor of emotional abuse,” noting that “It’s time to break the cycle and find the power in our stories.” Over the course of this story, she successfully shows how slowly such emotional abuse can build, as Blake’s seemingly innocuous comments to Emily steadily escalate into terrible financial problems and betrayal. Dee also spends a lot of time detailing how besotted Emily is, and some of these descriptions can feel clichéd, as when Emily notes, “He was hot and sexy, and his gemstone eyes burned right through me.” However, such passages also serve a clear purpose, as they help to make readers understand why it would be so hard for Emily to leave—even as everything in her life starts to go awry.

A well-paced story about suffering from and finding a way out of an abusive relationship.