NICE WHITE LADIES

An immensely readable examination of White women’s prominent role in the endurance of systematic racism.

Daniels, a professor of sociology and Africana studies, considers the many ways that White women—incarnated in the countless “Karen” memes on social media—have been active agents in perpetuating systems of inequality from which they benefit. These ways include being nonquestioning actors in hoarding wealth through inheritance, upholding segregation in schools, and cornering jobs at the expense of people of color—all of which stubbornly maintain the political and economic imbalance between White and Black households. The “built-in advantage” of being a White woman is a legacy of the Colonial era, when “white women in the United States were enthusiastic in their cruelty as owners of enslaved people on plantations.” Affirmative Action, notes Daniels, has overwhelmingly helped White women in the workforce. White supremacy in the South and the lynching of Black men were predicated on the “protection” of White women, and that sense of fragility and entitlement was passed down through the generations. The author uses a wide array of examples of “nice white ladies” both on the right and the left, well-meaning feminists, purveyors of the “shallow promise of the wellness industry,” and “white savior moms” who adopt children of color, and she shows how this “intergenerational” racism is actually raising the mortality rates of White women. Daniels also discusses the tragic suicide of her mother, who, despite relative privilege, was “taught to be nice above all else”—like many White women. Daniels, who has clearly done the work of examining herself first, concludes by offering constructive ways White women can undo the damage of their privileged status by challenging and questioning as well as by cultivating alternate forms of family and kinship outside of the White nuclear family. “As white women,” she writes, “we need to tell the truth about ourselves and we need transformation.”

This significant study, both academic and personal, provides a well-lit path “to swerve away from white supremacy.”