Helpful advice and humorous myth-busting; will draw readers in and encourage reflection.
What does it mean to be a man?
In actor and filmmaker Baldoni’s energetic introduction, he positions himself as a flawed but funny and earnest student of the nature of masculinity. He has written an adult nonfiction title about it, Man Enough (2021), and hosts The Man Enough Podcast. The eight chapters include quotes, relevant research, personal anecdotes, and advice—all presented in an accessible, conversational tone. Each chapter ends with a breakdown of key points that can guide further action. Occasional text boxes labeled “Gut Check” offer prompts that can lead to greater self-knowledge. The opening chapter, “Boys Will Be Brave,” ties bravery to the concept of doing what’s right, uncouples it from a pervasive ideal of brash masculinity, and traces one’s sense of justice and bravery to family dynamics and upbringing. Being brave isn’t easy; readers are encouraged to be true to themselves and ask for help when they need it. “Boys Will Be Bigger” tackles body image and its pitfalls; Baldoni assures readers that there is no such thing as the perfect male body and that we are not defined by our bodies. Puberty is different for everyone and can be complicated. “Boys Will Be Knights” focuses a realistic lens on love and romance. The book thoughtfully explores consent, sexual assault, homophobia, race and White privilege, and other themes that are inextricably entwined with notions of masculinity.
Helpful advice and humorous myth-busting; will draw readers in and encourage reflection. (sources, further reading) (Nonfiction. 11-16)Pub Date: Oct. 4, 2022
ISBN: 978-0-06-306718-9
Page Count: 304
Publisher: Harper/HarperCollins
Review Posted Online: July 26, 2022
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 15, 2022
Potentially useful insights for youngsters encountering loss.
Advice on coping with loss, from the death of a family member or a close friend to a beloved pet’s demise to life-changing events such as divorce.
Imperi, a chaplain and thanatologist (“someone who knows about death, dying, grief and loss”), uses her own terminology to distinguish between “deathloss” (“when a person or an animal we love dies”) and “shadowloss” (“the death of something, not someone”). These categories make sense, but kids grieving the death of a loved one may find it difficult to wade through sections about other serious problems. Although the recent pandemic caused many actual deaths, this book describes Covid as a shadowloss, a disrupter of normal life. Imperi mentions a few religious traditions, but the book is primarily concerned with practical ideas and individual experiences. Specific thinking, writing, and creative exercises for moving through the grief process are included. She spotlights five diverse teens, along with their coping strategies for different types of loss; they appear to be composite portraits rather than real individuals. The black-and-white line illustrations and charts throughout will appeal to some, but the boxed affirmations on many pages may feel repetitive to others; the work overall feels a bit like an expanded magazine article. Still, patient readers will likely find guidance—and reassurance.
Potentially useful insights for youngsters encountering loss. (grief journal, glossary, note for caregivers, resources, references, index) (Nonfiction. 11-14)Pub Date: Oct. 1, 2024
ISBN: 9781525309656
Page Count: 200
Publisher: Kids Can
Review Posted Online: Aug. 3, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 1, 2024
Facile pop-psychology from a clinical psychologist with the credentials to know better. Assigning a chapter each to a select range of feelings—nearly all of them painful or negative ones, such as guilt, fear or anger, with but one shorter chapter allotted to the likes of love and joy—Lamia offers generalizations about what emotional responses look and feel like, typical circumstances that might cause them to arise and superficial insights (“Negative or worried thoughts spoil a good mood”). She also offers bland palliative suggestions (“Forgive yourself and move on”), self-quizzes, sound-bite comments in the margins from young people and, in colored boxes labeled “Psych Notes,” relevant research abstracts from cited but hard-to-obtain professional sources. Aside from a mildly discouraging view of “Infatuation,” she isn’t judgmental or prescriptive, but her overview is so cursory that she skips the stages of grief, makes no distinction between disgust and contempt and barely takes notice of depression. Teens and preteens might come away slightly more self-aware, but they won’t find either motivation or tools to help them cope with major upset. (Self-help. 12-16)
Pub Date: Dec. 1, 2010
ISBN: 978-1-4338-0890-6
Page Count: 112
Publisher: Magination/American Psychological Association
Review Posted Online: Dec. 22, 2010
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Nov. 15, 2010
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