A perceptive, earnestly documented, yet unnecessarily sprawling exploration of gossip.
How gossip shapes our stories and selves.
McKinney, reporter, novelist, and host of the Normal Gossip podcast, examines the fundamental role of gossip in human connection. As she observes, “We gossip and we tell stories because that is how we each make sense of the world, with ourselves at the center reaching outward trying to connect with others, to prove to ourselves that we are real, that if anything is true, it is us.” She takes an ambitious journey through the landscape of human storytelling, and her exploration spans multiple domains: religious history (“Gossip and religion are braided together in our history as a species, so it makes sense that our belief systems have created rules around how we gossip and when. Maybe that is why the two—gossip and Christianity—are so intertwined for me”), ancient literature, and contemporary culture. Drawing from The Epic of Gilgamesh, she illustrates how even humanity's oldest known written story revolves around intimate conversations and shared secrets between its heroes, demonstrating gossip’s timeless role in storytelling. She references literary giants like Jane Austen, Kurt Vonnegut, and Rachel Cusk alongside commentary on reality TV phenomena such as The Real Housewives and The Bachelor franchises, while also examining celebrity narratives like Britney Spears’ public story. Personal experience enriches McKinney’s perspective, particularly her account of losing hearing in one ear and how this physical limitation has shaped her relationship to information and rumor. While McKinney provides meticulous research and offers some genuine insights in her attempt to elevate gossip to a worthy subject of study, the book’s expansive scope ultimately works against it. What might have been a sharp, incisive essay feels diluted when stretched to book length. The result is a work that, despite some intriguing observations, would have landed with more impact in a more condensed format.
A perceptive, earnestly documented, yet unnecessarily sprawling exploration of gossip.Pub Date: Feb. 11, 2025
ISBN: 9781538757406
Page Count: 288
Publisher: Grand Central Publishing
Review Posted Online: Nov. 23, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 1, 2025
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A philosophically rich critique of state violence and mass apathy.
An Egyptian Canadian journalist writes searchingly of this time of war.
“Rules, conventions, morals, reality itself: all exist so long as their existence is convenient to the preservation of power.” So writes El Akkad, who goes on to state that one of the demands of modern power is that those subject to it must imagine that some group of people somewhere are not fully human. El Akkad’s pointed example is Gaza, the current destruction of which, he writes, is causing millions of people around the world to examine the supposedly rules-governed, democratic West and declare, “I want nothing to do with this.” El Akkad, author of the novel American War (2017), discerns hypocrisy and racism in the West’s defense of Ukraine and what he views as indifference toward the Palestinian people. No stranger to war zones himself—El Akkad was a correspondent in Afghanistan and Iraq—he writes with grim matter-of-factness about murdered children, famine, and the deliberate targeting of civilians. With no love for Zionism lost, he offers an equally harsh critique of Hamas, yet another one of the “entities obsessed with violence as an ethos, brutal in their treatment of minority groups who in their view should not exist, and self-decreed to be the true protectors of an entire religion.” Taking a global view, El Akkad, who lives in the U.S., finds almost every government and society wanting, and not least those, he says, that turn away and pretend not to know, behavior that we’ve seen before and that, in the spirit of his title, will one day be explained away until, in the end, it comes down to “a quiet unheard reckoning in the winter of life between the one who said nothing, did nothing, and their own soul.”
A philosophically rich critique of state violence and mass apathy.Pub Date: Feb. 25, 2025
ISBN: 9780593804148
Page Count: 224
Publisher: Knopf
Review Posted Online: Dec. 14, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 15, 2025
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A fierce, penetrating, and empowering call for change.
Artist and activist Vaid-Menon demonstrates how the normativity of the gender binary represses creativity and inflicts physical and emotional violence.
The author, whose parents emigrated from India, writes about how enforcement of the gender binary begins before birth and affects people in all stages of life, with people of color being especially vulnerable due to Western conceptions of gender as binary. Gender assignments create a narrative for how a person should behave, what they are allowed to like or wear, and how they express themself. Punishment of nonconformity leads to an inseparable link between gender and shame. Vaid-Menon challenges familiar arguments against gender nonconformity, breaking them down into four categories—dismissal, inconvenience, biology, and the slippery slope (fear of the consequences of acceptance). Headers in bold font create an accessible navigation experience from one analysis to the next. The prose maintains a conversational tone that feels as intimate and vulnerable as talking with a best friend. At the same time, the author's turns of phrase in moments of deep insight ring with precision and poetry. In one reflection, they write, “the most lethal part of the human body is not the fist; it is the eye. What people see and how people see it has everything to do with power.” While this short essay speaks honestly of pain and injustice, it concludes with encouragement and an invitation into a future that celebrates transformation.
A fierce, penetrating, and empowering call for change. (writing prompt) (Nonfiction. 14-adult)Pub Date: June 2, 2020
ISBN: 978-0-593-09465-5
Page Count: 64
Publisher: Penguin Workshop
Review Posted Online: March 14, 2020
Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 1, 2020
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