GENDER EUPHORIA

The title of this collection aptly describes its unique contribution to the canon of writing on nonbinary issues.

Editor Dale collects pieces from noncisgender writers who describe only their joyful trans or nonbinary experiences. None of the essays feature the psychological trauma that can accompany gender dysphoria. “I’m not going to pretend that the world isn’t sometimes a bit miserable for non-cisgender people,” writes Dale. However, she continues, this book “is about people doing small actions and grand gestures that made them feel radiantly themselves and wonderfully at peace.” The positive editorial focus works well as the organizing theme. Rather than detailing victimization and suffering, these reflections find the very real delights in nonbinary experiences, as contributors examine how being trans, "enby" (short for nonbinary), or intersex contributes to their bliss. Most of these euphoric moments arise when the writers are finally able to present themselves in public as their true-felt gender (or nongender). Appearance is often important, whether it involves clothing (Jane Aerith Magnet’s "Escaping the Monochrome Closet at Pride"), makeup, tattoos, or body/facial hair. We feel the joy when Oliver Jones, an 18-year-old trans man from England, writes about an unexpected role as prom king or when Miles Nelson, an autistic and trans man, revels in a "gender-affirming wedding." Dale, the author of Uncomfortable Labels: My Life as a Gay Autistic Trans Woman, writes about when she first noticed that her hormone replacement therapy was working, felt “my new breasts bounce,” and attended her first "girly sleepover.” Parker Armando Deckard, a Filipino American nonbinary trans man, shares his happiness at cutting his hair supershort to look "like a boy," thus "reclaim[ing] part of myself." The contributors also demonstrate the importance of other subcultures and practices, including the punk scene, erotic role-playing in online gaming, cosplay at anime conventions, and BDSM sex work for trans and gender-nonconforming clients.

A welcome text in which trans, nonbinary, and intersex writers can reveal their true selves.