Stawowy presents a character-driven collection of poetry.
This book of poems follows a family across several generations. The author begins with a direct address to her ancestors, declaring, “Your stories, hidden gospels, and I, the heretic who decodes them” (“Dear Ancestors”). The book begins with a section on her biological family circa 1924 and 1925. In “Fern: The Expert,” readers meet Harry, a barber married in a shotgun wedding to Bertha (Fern is their “shotgun baby”). Harry’s mistress, Faye, refuses to “throw away good years like dishwater on petunias” (“Faye: I’ll Get What I Want”). George, the husband left behind, drinks from a “brown bag of grief” (“George: Wait a Minute”).The second section of the book features her adoptive family in the years between 1925 and 1960. The speaker lives with “Fred: Counterfeit Father,” sisters Doris and Florence, and a bitter mother named Belle. Doris soon departs for Chicago, and Fred feels left behind by his offspring. The third section of the book follows the “fractured family” from 1960 to 2018. Doris leaves her husband, claiming “I gave him a precious gift. He just doesn’t know it yet” (“Doris: Leaving Him”). Doris suffers from dementia. The final two poems find the poet reconciling her mother’s erroneous family tree with DNA testing, using writing to mend the story. Stawowy excels at making metaphors and similes. She describes “murmuring snails under a milk moon” (“Dear Ancestors”)and the way aging turns a face into “a frail map, antiquated” (“Faye, Age Seventy: Ignored at the Family Party”). The poet also experiments with form: There are poems written in the form of an advice column, one in which the columnist advises a wife worried about her husband’s absence to “guide that donkey back to the barn” (“Bertha: Asking for Advice”).Throughout, the poet adopts the voices of different characters. As the cast grows, it becomes challenging to keep them all straight—or feel deeply invested in their individual narrative arcs. It is not until the epilogue that Stawowy provides the context necessary to understand the poems.
A poetry collection about family origins that buries the lede.