A personal and often engaging story of struggling with questions of sex and self-esteem.
A meditation on virginity, sexual pressure, and looking for love.
In this intriguingly titled memoir, DelVecchio, a professor at Durham Technical Community College in North Carolina and the author of the YA novel Dear Jane(2019), offers an engaging and sometimes troubling account of a contemporary young woman dealing with sexual expectations, stereotyping, and the male gaze. The remembrance focuses mainly on her account of how she lived in the shadow of a controlling, censorious mother and how the author saw preserving her virginity as an act of empowerment. The author, who was adopted in Greece at the age of 8, was born to a mother who was a sex worker, which later became the basis for her adoptive mother’s labeling her a “putana”(a derogatory Greek term that the author translates as whore) and trying to exert influence on every aspect of her life. Nonetheless, DelVecchio managed to have a social life while working her way through college, and she eventually stood up to her adoptive mother. Interestingly, though, the question of her moving out and living with roommates never comes up, which, considering that she paid rent to her adoptive mother, leaves unanswered questions. One ongoing thread is her long search for a romantic partner who would love her for herself and not just pursue her for sex. Throughout, she tells of limiting her sexual activity with each partner, but eventually, she would feel that she was giving too much of herself away, and each relationship failed. She periodically affirms what she feels was the rightness of not “going all the way” with each partner—including in an account of when she found that a former boyfriend got another young woman pregnant out of wedlock. As a result, the litany of failed relationships can get repetitive. However, it does lay the groundwork for a lovely surprise later in the narrative, although the author leaves the reader hanging as to what eventually happened later in her romantic life. Even with these minor flaws, though, this memoir is a thoughtful and highly readable account of dealing with sexual expectations.
A personal and often engaging story of struggling with questions of sex and self-esteem.Pub Date: April 26, 2022
ISBN: 978-1-64742-337-7
Page Count: 264
Publisher: She Writes Press
Review Posted Online: Feb. 15, 2022
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A slick, vacuous glimpse into the former first lady’s White House years.
A carefully curated personal portrait.
First ladies’ roles have evolved significantly in recent decades. Their memoirs typically reflect a spectrum of ambition and interests, offering insights into their values and personal lives. Melania Trump, however, stands out as exceptionally private and elusive. Her ultra-lean account attempts to shed light on her public duties, initiatives, and causes as first lady, and it defends certain actions like her controversial “I REALLY DON’T CARE, DO U?” jacket. The statement was directed at the media, not the border situation, she claims. Yet the book provides scant detail about her personal orbit or day-to-day interactions. The memoir opens with her well-known Slovenian origin story, successful modeling career, and whirlwind romance with Donald Trump, culminating in their 2005 marriage, followed by a snapshot of Election Day 2016: “Each time we were together that day, I was impressed by his calm.…This man is remarkably confident under pressure.” Once in the White House, Melania Trump describes her functions and numerous public events at home and abroad, which she asserts were more accomplished than media representations suggested. However, she rarely shares any personal interactions beyond close family ties, notably her affection for her son, Barron, and her sister, Ines. And of course she lavishes praise on her husband. Minimal anecdotes about White House or cabinet staff are included, and she carefully defuses her rumored tensions with Trump’s adult children, blandly stating, “While we may share the same last name, each of us is distinct with our own aspirations and paths to follow.” Although Melania’s desire to support causes related to children’s and women’s welfare feels authentic, the overall tenor of her memoir seems aimed at painting a glimmering portrait of her husband and her role, likely with an eye toward the forthcoming election.
A slick, vacuous glimpse into the former first lady’s White House years.Pub Date: Oct. 8, 2024
ISBN: 9781510782693
Page Count: 256
Publisher: Skyhorse Publishing
Review Posted Online: Oct. 14, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 1, 2024
A blissfully vicarious, heartfelt glimpse into the life of a Manhattan burlesque dancer.
A former New York City dancer reflects on her zesty heyday in the 1970s.
Discovered on a Manhattan street in 2020 and introduced on Stanton’s Humans of New York Instagram page, Johnson, then 76, shares her dynamic history as a “fiercely independent” Black burlesque dancer who used the stage name Tanqueray and became a celebrated fixture in midtown adult theaters. “I was the only black girl making white girl money,” she boasts, telling a vibrant story about sex and struggle in a bygone era. Frank and unapologetic, Johnson vividly captures aspects of her former life as a stage seductress shimmying to blues tracks during 18-minute sets or sewing lingerie for plus-sized dancers. Though her work was far from the Broadway shows she dreamed about, it eventually became all about the nightly hustle to simply survive. Her anecdotes are humorous, heartfelt, and supremely captivating, recounted with the passion of a true survivor and the acerbic wit of a weathered, street-wise New Yorker. She shares stories of growing up in an abusive household in Albany in the 1940s, a teenage pregnancy, and prison time for robbery as nonchalantly as she recalls selling rhinestone G-strings to prostitutes to make them sparkle in the headlights of passing cars. Complemented by an array of revealing personal photographs, the narrative alternates between heartfelt nostalgia about the seedier side of Manhattan’s go-go scene and funny quips about her unconventional stage performances. Encounters with a variety of hardworking dancers, drag queens, and pimps, plus an account of the complexities of a first love with a drug-addled hustler, fill out the memoir with personality and candor. With a narrative assist from Stanton, the result is a consistently titillating and often moving story of human struggle as well as an insider glimpse into the days when Times Square was considered the Big Apple’s gloriously unpolished underbelly. The book also includes Yee’s lush watercolor illustrations.
A blissfully vicarious, heartfelt glimpse into the life of a Manhattan burlesque dancer.Pub Date: July 12, 2022
ISBN: 978-1-250-27827-2
Page Count: 192
Publisher: St. Martin's
Review Posted Online: July 27, 2022
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