WHO COULD EVER LOVE YOU

A second tell-all memoir from the former president’s niece.

Mary Trump, a clinical psychologist, expands her vehemently critical assessment of her family outward after the first memoir, Too Much and Never Enough, skewered Uncle Donald. With raw authenticity and bracing detail, she painstakingly reveals the devastating psychological impact of the Trump clan's outraged reaction to her first tell-all, which forced her to check herself into a treatment program utilizing experimental ketamine therapy. Three years prior, she’d had treatment for “intensive trauma” and a dissociation condition, all exacerbated by the fact that “Donald Trump is my uncle.” Looking inward, she peels back the traumatic layers of her early life growing up in Jamaica, New York, with parents Freddy, a commercial airline pilot, and Linda, a flight attendant. Sadly, her parents’ idyllic romance curdled beneath the constant mockery and “stifling control and blanket disapproval” of her grandfather, real estate mogul Fred Trump, the “unaffectionate” family patriarch. Eventually the author would grieve for her parents, who each suffered with personal demons, particularly her father, who succumbed to alcoholism and died prematurely at age 42. Ordeals with chronic asthma attacks (which were ignored by her dismissive mother), sexual harassment from a neighbor, and an indifferent family forced her to shut out the world around her and “turn inward.” With blistering frankness, Trump elaborates on the melodrama surrounding her grandfather’s will and the numerous lawsuits (“my family’s love language”) that ensued after Donald and his siblings calculatedly stole her and her father’s inheritance from her grandfather’s estate. Trump, who is openly gay and a mother to a grown daughter, doesn’t skimp on the jarring, revelatory details of her toxic family, telling her truths with lucidity despite the narrative’s relentlessly despondent tone and texture. She unpacks the baseline origins of her debilitating stress, self-loathing, and self-isolation in a heartless clan that apparently couldn’t care less about her.

Another scathing exposé of the enduring fallout from a poisonous, dysfunctional family dynamic.