HOW TO HAVE A BIRTHDAY

Are there key ingredients that are part of any (American) child’s birthday?

Ray intimates that there are. Her narrative employs the second person, a choice that instantly draws the listener in: “…your birthday is to celebrate that you are here. It’s to tell you that you matter.” Derby’s compositions follow three characters throughout their special days. Two have brown skin—one with long, straight hair and the other with two Afro puffs. The third child is White with flaming red hair and glasses. Each carries a stuffed animal. The telling is sensitive to class and income differences, often using the conditional may or might, and while presents and singing are mentioned, intangibles and independent actions are mentioned as well: your first present is “…you get to wonder” (what will occur on this day), and you can always sing to yourself. Traditions and cake are often involved, but it’s also terrific that birthdays are portable; they go with you all day, whatever you do. Dynamic single- or double-page scenes depict snowy, windswept play; dabs of vibrant color suggest a field of flowers that, upon closer inspection, reveal bodies and faces, illustrating the idea that pictures will help you remember the occasion. The title concludes with three horizontal, parallel views, one for each child as they make wishes.

A delightful conversation starter on a topic of perennial interest to young children.