HOW TO HAVE FRIENDS

Advice for making, keeping, and being a good friend.

In this picture book, children are shown in different friendship situations, some fun and playful, others involving struggles or complicated feelings. For each scenario, Macdonald gives some good advice: “If you want someone to be your friend, listen to them,” she writes, and “pay attention. Feelings are important.” However, aside from the reminder that “friends stand by you too” (the accompanying illustration shows one boy helping another search for his lost backpack), almost all of the lessons in the book revolve around putting yourself second. There are no examples of going to a friend with your emotional needs, for instance. The give-and-take nature of friendships is underrepresented. While, overall, the book might explain ways to be a supportive friend, it doesn’t present the complete picture of how to have friends. Wojciechowski’s full-color digital illustrations feature children with expressive faces and different skin tones, hair types, and eye colors and include a child using a wheelchair. (This book was reviewed digitally.)

A mostly one-sided how-to guide on friendship.