OUR HIDDEN CONVERSATIONS

A notable collection of short, pithy messages about race and identity.

As Peabody Award–winning journalist Norris, the author of The Grace of Silence, notes, many Americans find it difficult to discuss race in an open-minded, productive way. In 2010, to gauge opinion about the subject, the author started a project in which she distributed cards, asking them to be returned to her with a six-word message about experiences or views connected to race. She first assumed she would receive a trickle of responses, but it became a flood, representing an impressive range of racial categories in the U.S., from white to Black to Asian to Native American and beyond. Gradually, the project expanded to include longer stories and interviews. This book is a curated collection spanning a wide spectrum of thinking. In many cases, the sense of resentment goes back decades or even generations, so deep it is difficult to see how it can be assuaged. Despite the variety of contributions, there is no clear answer to the central question of whether racial differences should be emphasized or minimized. Many Black respondents tell stories of police who automatically assume they are guilty of something, and many Asians reflect on how they feel persistently stereotyped. Numerous white contributors indicate they believe they are assuming blame for past events in which they were not involved. Norris eventually comes down on the side of the “bridge builders” who can reach across differences, rather than the dividers. “America has made commendable and incredible progress in matters of race,” she writes. “I never take that for granted, but continued progress will require collective and constant toil.” The author’s own message? “Still more work to be done.” The book features dozens of full-color photos.

Norris offers crucial insight into how Americans think about race, combining the painful with the inspiring.