DEAF UTOPIA

The life and legacy of a Deaf model and activist.

In his debut book, DiMarco begins with the complicated births of he and his twin brother, Nico, in 1989. “Nico and I had joined our older brother as the fourth generation to be born Deaf in our family,” writes the author. DiMarco recalls his rascally childhood in Queens, a time characterized by immense curiosity, independence, and innocent wanderlust. He regularly left his hearing aids at home, preferring to use American Sign Language while attending a school for the Deaf where some of the teachers were against using it. As a young man, DiMarco enjoyed playing Little League baseball while slowly developing a keen defensiveness against the taunting and mean-spiritedness he experienced in public school. In his teens, an acute attraction toward other boys blossomed, and in college, his natural talent for modeling led to success on America’s Next Top Model and Dancing With the Stars—although he admits that the former became an unexpectedly isolating emotional journey. Once DiMarco’s star began to rise and he signed a reality show deal with Netflix, he became more comfortable coming out as sexually fluid. Interwoven throughout the narrative are pivotal moments in Deaf history and culture that have shaped the author as an individual. He discusses how the creation of the book proved challenging during the conversion process from ASL into written English, noting how he used a method called “ASL gloss.” While DiMarco admits that the written translation naturally lacks much of the innate charm of the ASL experience, his continued advocacy remains critical to diminishing the awareness gap between hearing and Deaf communities. Unique and vividly written, the memoir effectively serves a dual purpose: to showcase the author’s life and exuberant pride as a Deaf individual and to bring increased awareness to the Deaf community by spotlighting “the beauty, power, [and] magic of ASL.”

An honest, heartfelt, and thoroughly memorable portrayal of growing up Deaf.