by Phillip Lopate ‧ RELEASE DATE: Sept. 2, 2008
A book that explores serious relationships—between men and women, head and heart, love and lust—with a light touch.
Two novellas chronicle middle-age marriage in the author’s native Brooklyn.
Though Lopate (American Movie Critics, 2006, etc.) is better known for nonfiction in general, and personal essays in particular, his return to fiction proves to be an urbane, sophisticated pleasure. “The Stoic’s Marriage,” the first and longer of the two pieces, takes the form of a diary of a Castilian man who considers himself a philosophic intellectual but comes across as a prig. His life seems to be something he endures rather than enjoys, until the failing health of his mother (with whom he lives) brings a lusciously erotic Filipina into his house, his life and ultimately his bed. Though he wildly idealizes her at the outset, the reader assumes that a man who knows so much from books but so little of the world is headed for a fall. “Before I met her, my life was barren…,” he ruminates. “Now it is chaotic, hellish, furious, and fecund.” As marital complications find his life teetering between tragedy and farce, he tries to reconcile his academic stoicism with the sexual pleasure to which he’d become accustomed, if not addicted. Shorter by half, “Eleanor, or, The Second Marriage” has a very different tone and format, as the third-person narration details the adjustments made by Frank and Eleanor (no Roosevelt associations), who were both hipsters in their earlier days but who have domesticated themselves into what is the second marriage for each. Eleanor was the wilder one, the woman whom every man she met desired, yet she has somehow settled for a husband who negotiates pot deals with his son and then can’t decide whether he’s getting high or suffering a heart attack. After a friend who still has a crush on Eleanor suggests that “lasting love is just a cultural delusion,” a dinner party brings mirth and psychological mayhem to the household, threatening the shaky foundations of the marriage.
A book that explores serious relationships—between men and women, head and heart, love and lust—with a light touch.Pub Date: Sept. 2, 2008
ISBN: 978-1-59051-298-2
Page Count: 272
Publisher: Other Press
Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010
Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 1, 2008
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by Sally Rooney ‧ RELEASE DATE: April 16, 2019
Absolutely enthralling. Read it.
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A young Irish couple gets together, splits up, gets together, splits up—sorry, can't tell you how it ends!
Irish writer Rooney has made a trans-Atlantic splash since publishing her first novel, Conversations With Friends, in 2017. Her second has already won the Costa Novel Award, among other honors, since it was published in Ireland and Britain last year. In outline it's a simple story, but Rooney tells it with bravura intelligence, wit, and delicacy. Connell Waldron and Marianne Sheridan are classmates in the small Irish town of Carricklea, where his mother works for her family as a cleaner. It's 2011, after the financial crisis, which hovers around the edges of the book like a ghost. Connell is popular in school, good at soccer, and nice; Marianne is strange and friendless. They're the smartest kids in their class, and they forge an intimacy when Connell picks his mother up from Marianne's house. Soon they're having sex, but Connell doesn't want anyone to know and Marianne doesn't mind; either she really doesn't care, or it's all she thinks she deserves. Or both. Though one time when she's forced into a social situation with some of their classmates, she briefly fantasizes about what would happen if she revealed their connection: "How much terrifying and bewildering status would accrue to her in this one moment, how destabilising it would be, how destructive." When they both move to Dublin for Trinity College, their positions are swapped: Marianne now seems electric and in-demand while Connell feels adrift in this unfamiliar environment. Rooney's genius lies in her ability to track her characters' subtle shifts in power, both within themselves and in relation to each other, and the ways they do and don't know each other; they both feel most like themselves when they're together, but they still have disastrous failures of communication. "Sorry about last night," Marianne says to Connell in February 2012. Then Rooney elaborates: "She tries to pronounce this in a way that communicates several things: apology, painful embarrassment, some additional pained embarrassment that serves to ironise and dilute the painful kind, a sense that she knows she will be forgiven or is already, a desire not to 'make a big deal.' " Then: "Forget about it, he says." Rooney precisely articulates everything that's going on below the surface; there's humor and insight here as well as the pleasure of getting to know two prickly, complicated people as they try to figure out who they are and who they want to become.
Absolutely enthralling. Read it.Pub Date: April 16, 2019
ISBN: 978-1-984-82217-8
Page Count: 288
Publisher: Hogarth
Review Posted Online: Feb. 17, 2019
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2019
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by Toni Morrison ‧ RELEASE DATE: Oct. 29, 1970
"This soil," concludes the young narrator of this quiet chronicle of garrotted innocence, "is bad for all kinds of flowers. Certain seeds it will not nurture, certain fruit it will not bear." And among the exclusions of white rural Ohio, echoed by black respectability, is ugly, black, loveless, twelve-year-old Pecola. But in a world where blue-eyed gifts are clucked over and admired, and the Pecolas are simply not seen, there is always the possibility of the dream and wish—for blue eyes. Born of a mother who adjusted her life to the clarity and serenity of white households and "acquired virtues that were easy to maintain" and a father, Cholly, stunted by early rejections and humiliations, Pecola just might have been loved—for in raping his daughter Cholly did at least touch her. But "Love is never better than the lover," and with the death of her baby, the child herself, accepting absolutely the gift of blue eyes from a faith healer (whose perverse interest in little girls does not preclude understanding), inches over into madness. A skillful understated tribute to the fall of a sparrow for whose small tragedy there was no watching eye.
Pub Date: Oct. 29, 1970
ISBN: 0375411550
Page Count: -
Publisher: Holt Rinehart & Winston
Review Posted Online: Sept. 30, 2011
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 1, 1970
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