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MIND TRAINING: THE SCIENCE OF SELF-EMPOWERMENT

A serious—if sometimes vague—study of why we think the way we do and how to change it for the better.

A systematic program for improving one’s mind and life.

In their collaborative debut (expanded from a blog post), spouses Taylor and Taylor lay out a philosophy for developing productive mental habits: “appreciate” (understand the inherent power of your mind), “learn” (analyze how the mind actually works), “internalize” (fully absorb the Taylors’ methods), “choose” (adopt the strategies laid out), and “implement” (put the ideas into practice). Referencing a variety of psychiatric concepts drawn from a range of sources, including Freud and Erik Erikson (as well as a selection of neuroscientists), the authors break down the basics of brain function, cultural and evolutionary imperatives, and the ability “to inhibit instinctive behaviors,” like the classic quartet—fight, flight, feeding, and fornication. The Taylors acknowledge the difficulty of exercising inhibition (“How can you be honest with yourself,” they ask, “when you have these undercurrents and unknown needs and desires?”), drawing on personal anecdotes. For example, Ravinder Taylor had to summon the self-confidence to host Eldon Taylor’s radio show solo, inhibiting her “flight” response to the fear of public speaking. Added to these anecdotes are case studies taken from their wide reading to present readers with a survey of the self-help publishing industry, from Napoleon Hill and Norman Vincent Peale in the 20th century to the present day. This breadth of citation is buttressed by generously detailed end notes. Each of the book’s sections concludes with “Key Points” and “Exercises,” prompting readers to directly engage with the material.

Despite the authors’ assertion that their book is “a scientific exploration of the mind, specifically on how this information can be used to improve your life by maximizing your natural talents and abilities,” their approach is often subjective and soft-focus (one of the book’s earliest quotes is not from a psychologist or sociologist but from the Star Warscharacter Yoda). The authors provide plenty of scientific information about human cognition, but they also outline kindhearted but imprecise suggestions, as when the authors urge readers to “cultivate the warm fuzzy feeling that comes from doing something nice for someone else.” The authors compensate for these moments with many concrete, helpful takeaways; some may seem counterintuitive to readers not well versed in cognitive studies. The authors note, for example, an expert who warns that the small dopamine rush of failure might lead to an addiction to negativity. “A key part of succeeding at any of your goals,” they write, “is to believe you can achieve your goal.” By contrast, they cite a study that suggests success not only makes people happier, but that happiness makes people more successful. Their advocacy of persistent optimism and realistic goal-setting will eventually uplift even the most pessimistic reader. “What could you achieve if you were 33% more successful at whatever you tried to achieve?” they ask, and suddenly, seen in that light, the impossible seems a lot more manageable.

A serious—if sometimes vague—study of why we think the way we do and how to change it for the better.

Pub Date: N/A

ISBN: N/A

Page Count: 322

Publisher: manuscript

Review Posted Online: Aug. 20, 2024

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INTIMIDATING SHADES

WHY DOES MY SISTER HATE ME?

A stiff saga of righteousness overcoming a bad seed.

Skin color fuels sibling rivalries in this family melodrama.

Vernon and Verlene Mays, a multiracial couple in DeKalb, Texas, pass on a rainbow of complexions to their four children. Family discord ensues as their eldest daughter Verna, a light-skinned beauty, conceives an intense loathing for her darker, chubbier sister Viola Grace for no clear reason aside from Viola Grace’s unfashionable looks, studiousness and angelic disposition. Verna’s meanness blossoms in high school; she cuts classes, hangs with bad girls and sighs and rolls her eyes at everything her family does. Sounds pretty typical for a teenager, but Verlene, a woman with strict Christian values, is not one to brook a jot of rebelliousness in a child and packs her daughter off to a church boarding school. Verna runs away, taking with her the story’s sole element of trouble and complexity; with her off the stage for many chapters, the novel becomes a staid chronicle of happiness and achievement. Viola does brilliantly in college and medical school and acquires an upstanding surgeon boyfriend; her brother Vernon, Jr. and sister Vernice are also paragons. Verna-less, the family gathers for joyous yuletide celebrations (primly devoid of the “pagan symbolism” of the Christmas tree) where they toast their successes and give thanks to God before rushing out to buy new Bibles. “ ‘God is good all the time, and everything is just fine,’ ” Viola Grace observes in a fitting summary of most of the narrative. It’s a relief when the prodigal Verna finally resurfaces, beaten unconscious, with years of hard living under her belt; the tearful reunions have hardly subsided when a new rivalry develops over Verna’s neglected children, whom Viola Grace has taken in. Verna is an interesting character—bruised, often nasty, aching over her estrangement from her censorious family. Unfortunately, the author disapproves of her as strongly as the other characters do; the story is so intent on deploring Verna and applauding her perfect siblings that we never learn what makes her tick.

A stiff saga of righteousness overcoming a bad seed.

Pub Date: April 1, 2010

ISBN: 978-1-4415-8934-7

Page Count: 188

Publisher: Xlibris

Review Posted Online: July 19, 2010

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THE VALKYRIES

AN ENCOUNTER WITH ANGELS

A facile New Age story in which the author and his wife are initiated into the cult of angels by a band of women bikers in the Mojave Desert. Coelho (The Alchemist, 1993) tells how, at the bidding of his "Master," a wealthy businessman, he and his wife, Chris, go off into the desert for 40 days to look for his guardian angel. They find their enlightenment first from Gene, a young man who lives in a trailer, and finally from eight women, known as the Valkyries, who roam the desert on motorcycles and whose wild leader, Valhalla, becomes the couple's mystagogue. Coelho's basic message is that Paradise is open and angels are present if only we break the pact of our self-betrayal and learn to conquer fear and the distractions of our "second mind." Unfortunately, he fails to go anywhere with this potentially exciting but hardly original vision. What he offers is a kind of doctrinal salad in which belief in angels, channeling, and casual sex are mixed with references to Magic rites, Catholic worship, and reincarnation. Coelho uses his characters to emphasize the dubious position that spiritual knowledge can be gained without any connection to how one lives. At times his wisdom turns out to be the familiar exhortation to follow our dreams, and he asserts, without clarification, that we are all manifestations of the Absolute. Coelho's ignorance and superficiality are most blatant when he tells us that St. Mary of Egypt was canonized for her promiscuity and is remembered by almost no one today, whereas in fact, she was converted during her famous visit to Jerusalem, spent the rest of her life as a penitent, and is solemnly commemorated every year by the Orthodox Church all over the world. More pap for the spiritually challenged.

Pub Date: Sept. 1, 1995

ISBN: 0-06-251291-9

Page Count: 240

Publisher: N/A

Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010

Kirkus Reviews Issue: June 15, 1995

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