by Ravinder Taylor and Eldon Taylor ‧ RELEASE DATE: N/A
A serious—if sometimes vague—study of why we think the way we do and how to change it for the better.
A systematic program for improving one’s mind and life.
In their collaborative debut (expanded from a blog post), spouses Taylor and Taylor lay out a philosophy for developing productive mental habits: “appreciate” (understand the inherent power of your mind), “learn” (analyze how the mind actually works), “internalize” (fully absorb the Taylors’ methods), “choose” (adopt the strategies laid out), and “implement” (put the ideas into practice). Referencing a variety of psychiatric concepts drawn from a range of sources, including Freud and Erik Erikson (as well as a selection of neuroscientists), the authors break down the basics of brain function, cultural and evolutionary imperatives, and the ability “to inhibit instinctive behaviors,” like the classic quartet—fight, flight, feeding, and fornication. The Taylors acknowledge the difficulty of exercising inhibition (“How can you be honest with yourself,” they ask, “when you have these undercurrents and unknown needs and desires?”), drawing on personal anecdotes. For example, Ravinder Taylor had to summon the self-confidence to host Eldon Taylor’s radio show solo, inhibiting her “flight” response to the fear of public speaking. Added to these anecdotes are case studies taken from their wide reading to present readers with a survey of the self-help publishing industry, from Napoleon Hill and Norman Vincent Peale in the 20th century to the present day. This breadth of citation is buttressed by generously detailed end notes. Each of the book’s sections concludes with “Key Points” and “Exercises,” prompting readers to directly engage with the material.
Despite the authors’ assertion that their book is “a scientific exploration of the mind, specifically on how this information can be used to improve your life by maximizing your natural talents and abilities,” their approach is often subjective and soft-focus (one of the book’s earliest quotes is not from a psychologist or sociologist but from the Star Warscharacter Yoda). The authors provide plenty of scientific information about human cognition, but they also outline kindhearted but imprecise suggestions, as when the authors urge readers to “cultivate the warm fuzzy feeling that comes from doing something nice for someone else.” The authors compensate for these moments with many concrete, helpful takeaways; some may seem counterintuitive to readers not well versed in cognitive studies. The authors note, for example, an expert who warns that the small dopamine rush of failure might lead to an addiction to negativity. “A key part of succeeding at any of your goals,” they write, “is to believe you can achieve your goal.” By contrast, they cite a study that suggests success not only makes people happier, but that happiness makes people more successful. Their advocacy of persistent optimism and realistic goal-setting will eventually uplift even the most pessimistic reader. “What could you achieve if you were 33% more successful at whatever you tried to achieve?” they ask, and suddenly, seen in that light, the impossible seems a lot more manageable.
A serious—if sometimes vague—study of why we think the way we do and how to change it for the better.Pub Date: N/A
ISBN: N/A
Page Count: 322
Publisher: manuscript
Review Posted Online: Aug. 20, 2024
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
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by Zach Manbeck ; illustrated by Zach Manbeck ‧ RELEASE DATE: May 10, 2022
An uplifting ode to the power of taking small steps to make big changes.
Manbeck offers direction for life’s journeys in his children’s book debut.
Using just one or two pithy sentences per page, the text encourages readers to bravely forge their own paths in the world. Whatever one hopes to accomplish or whatever one’s destination in life, the starting point is “here,” a point of view that suggests that there is power and wisdom in embracing the present moment. Manbeck assures readers that “you can go anywhere!” and includes all-caps imperatives on almost every double-page spread: “Begin”; “Take your time”; “Keep going”; “Be patient”; etc. A major thrust of the narrative is the futility of comparing oneself to others since every person is unique and there is no one-size-fits-all formula for how life should unfold. The whimsical illustrations, rendered in gouache and mixed media with digital editing, show sprightly children and their childlike anthropomorphic animal companions romping on giant fantastical play structures that recall Rube Goldberg machines. Some spreads feature a montage of the characters adventurously exploring a range of fun activities: butterfly watching, rollerblading, riding a penny-farthing, etc. Flowers and butterflies—with their associated meanings of transformation, hope, courage, success, and new beginnings—are used liberally as motifs throughout the colorful artwork. The characters have various skin tones, and one of them uses a wheelchair. Many wear party hats, conveying a mood of celebration; indeed, this book would make a good baby-shower or graduation gift.
An uplifting ode to the power of taking small steps to make big changes. (Gift book. 0-5, adult)Pub Date: May 10, 2022
ISBN: 978-1-79721-010-0
Page Count: 36
Publisher: Chronicle Books
Review Posted Online: Jan. 11, 2022
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 1, 2022
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by Paulo Coelho & translated by Margaret Jull Costa ‧ RELEASE DATE: Sept. 1, 1995
A facile New Age story in which the author and his wife are initiated into the cult of angels by a band of women bikers in the Mojave Desert. Coelho (The Alchemist, 1993) tells how, at the bidding of his "Master," a wealthy businessman, he and his wife, Chris, go off into the desert for 40 days to look for his guardian angel. They find their enlightenment first from Gene, a young man who lives in a trailer, and finally from eight women, known as the Valkyries, who roam the desert on motorcycles and whose wild leader, Valhalla, becomes the couple's mystagogue. Coelho's basic message is that Paradise is open and angels are present if only we break the pact of our self-betrayal and learn to conquer fear and the distractions of our "second mind." Unfortunately, he fails to go anywhere with this potentially exciting but hardly original vision. What he offers is a kind of doctrinal salad in which belief in angels, channeling, and casual sex are mixed with references to Magic rites, Catholic worship, and reincarnation. Coelho uses his characters to emphasize the dubious position that spiritual knowledge can be gained without any connection to how one lives. At times his wisdom turns out to be the familiar exhortation to follow our dreams, and he asserts, without clarification, that we are all manifestations of the Absolute. Coelho's ignorance and superficiality are most blatant when he tells us that St. Mary of Egypt was canonized for her promiscuity and is remembered by almost no one today, whereas in fact, she was converted during her famous visit to Jerusalem, spent the rest of her life as a penitent, and is solemnly commemorated every year by the Orthodox Church all over the world. More pap for the spiritually challenged.
Pub Date: Sept. 1, 1995
ISBN: 0-06-251291-9
Page Count: 240
Publisher: N/A
Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010
Kirkus Reviews Issue: June 15, 1995
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