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PEACEFUL ME by Sandra V. Feder

PEACEFUL ME

by Sandra V. Feder ; illustrated by Rahele Jomepour Bell

Pub Date: May 2nd, 2023
ISBN: 9781773063416
Publisher: Groundwood

A child reflects on all the different ways to experience peace.

An unnamed, Black-presenting protagonist looks serenely out a window beside a happy black cat. The child narrator describes moments when they feel peaceful: when connecting with others, when they’re by themself, or “when things go well.” This gentle story introduces different flavors of peace—“ ‘Good game!’ peaceful.” “ ‘Cuddle time,’ peaceful.” “ ‘I’ll help,’ peaceful.” Bell’s dynamic, textured illustrations make peace feel particularly palpable, such as when the protagonist describes the “ ‘floating,’ peaceful” they feel when swimming outside; Bell’s depiction of the contented main character, buoyed on the light-webbed surface of a lake, is mesmerizing. But the child does acknowledge that they don’t always feel peaceful—“So I slow my breathing down—deep breath in, deep breath out.” The rest of the story details strategies for finding peace, with the narrator concluding that “Sometimes it takes work to get there. But when I do, I’m happy to be peaceful me.” With no validation of nonpeaceful emotions, some young readers may get the impression that distress and agitation are bad feelings to fix rather than normal emotions that just require processing. The book would have benefitted from a slightly more expanded narrative that spends more time on negative emotions; caregivers and educators may want to pair it with the creators' earlier title Angry Me (2022) for a more in-depth look at the emotional spectrum. Still, overall this is an age-appropriate exploration of how to stay centered and calm. (This book was reviewed digitally.)

A vibrantly illustrated ode to tranquility.

(Picture book. 3-6)