WHEN WE BECOME OURS

An anthology of short stories by and about transracial adoptees offering solidarity and understanding.

Across 15 stories, authors from a broad variety of backgrounds explore the need to belong and the difficulties in doing so when one is a child adopted and raised by parents who look different and are of a different race. In Mariama J. Lockington’s “Cora and Benji’s Great Escape,” set at Camp Unity, “A Black Identity Experience,” Cora, a Black 15-year-old, uses poetry to explore her increasing sense of disconnection from her white adoptive mother, and she eagerly reunites with fellow adoptee and camp bestie, Benji. In MeMe Collier’s “Haunt Me, Then,” Hazel, who was adopted from China, is visited by the ghost of Jamie, her brother who was adopted from South Korea and died six months ago; raised by strict Christian parents, both siblings sought information about their birth parents, but Jamie’s curiosity grew into rage. Though each story conveys its own nuances and contributes to deeper understanding of the subject, those that speak more directly to the central theme of adoption are overall stronger than the more abstract entries. An afterword by transracial adoptee and scholar JaeRan Kim deftly summarizes the value of this work: “those from dominant and majority groups need decentering if they are to develop into compassionate, justice-seeking adults. This book is for everyone—those personally connected to adoption and anyone interested in expanding their understanding of adoptees.”

An emotion-filled collection.