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PROXY MOM

MY EXPERIENCE WITH POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION

A unique, refreshingly candid memoir of the myriad challenges of early motherhood.

A prolific French writer and a graphic artist collaborate to demystify what it means for a new mother to live through postpartum depression.

At the end of the book, Mathou remarks that pregnant women are often told motherhood is “absolutely wonderful,” and many people refuse to acknowledge “all the things that can go wrong.” However, she and Adriansen reveal the little-discussed darker side of what really awaits some women after childbirth. Drawing from Adriansen’s experiences with postpartum depression, the pair create a charmingly colorful graphic memoir centered on a fictional character named Marietta, who is unable to bond with her newborn daughter. Extreme pain dominated the last few weeks of Marietta's otherwise idyllic pregnancy, and while the child was born healthy, she felt nothing except resentment for the discomfort the infant caused her during breast feedings, as well as the way birth itself had transformed her body into a “war zone.” A disinterested and unhappy Marietta often imagined hiring a “proxy…wonder mom” version of herself to care for her baby, and she eventually sought assistance from a psychiatrist and nanny. During this particularly difficult period, she laments, “anything and everything [could] trigger tears in me.” Yet with each challenge she faced—her newly empty, stretched-out body, her persistent feelings of guilt, inadequacy, and sometimes suicidal sadness—Marietta found validation for being the best mother she could be from friends, family, and even strangers and formed an unbreakable bond with her child five months later. With its fearless, frank depictions of the profound changes a woman’s body and mind undergo in the aftermath of birth, this book invites much-needed conversations about the socially unacknowledged difficulties so many women face on the road to assuming new identities as mothers.

A unique, refreshingly candid memoir of the myriad challenges of early motherhood.

Pub Date: June 18, 2024

ISBN: 9781681123349

Page Count: 144

Publisher: NBM

Review Posted Online: Feb. 24, 2024

Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 15, 2024

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WELCOME TO THE NEW WORLD

An accessible, informative journey through complex issues during turbulent times.

Immersion journalism in the form of a graphic narrative following a Syrian family on their immigration to America.

Originally published as a 22-part series in the New York Times that garnered a Pulitzer for editorial cartooning, the story of the Aldabaan family—first in exile in Jordan and then in New Haven, Connecticut—holds together well as a full-length book. Halpern and Sloan, who spent more than three years with the Aldabaans, movingly explore the family’s significant obstacles, paying special attention to teenage son Naji, whose desire for the ideal of the American dream was the strongest. While not minimizing the harshness of the repression that led them to journey to the U.S.—or the challenges they encountered after they arrived—the focus on the day-by-day adjustment of a typical teenager makes the narrative refreshingly tangible and free of political polemic. Still, the family arrived at New York’s JFK airport during extraordinarily political times: Nov. 8, 2016, the day that Donald Trump was elected. The plan had been for the entire extended family to move, but some had traveled while others awaited approval, a process that was hampered by Trump’s travel ban. The Aldabaans encountered the daunting odds that many immigrants face: find shelter and employment, become self-sustaining quickly, learn English, and adjust to a new culture and climate (Naji learned to shovel snow, which he had never seen). They also received anonymous death threats, and Naji wanted to buy a gun for protection. He asked himself, “Was this the great future you were talking about back in Jordan?” Yet with the assistance of selfless volunteers and a community of fellow immigrants, the Aldabaans persevered. The epilogue provides explanatory context and where-are-they-now accounts, and Sloan’s streamlined, uncluttered illustrations nicely complement the text, consistently emphasizing the humanity of each person.

An accessible, informative journey through complex issues during turbulent times.

Pub Date: Sept. 8, 2020

ISBN: 978-1-250-30559-6

Page Count: 192

Publisher: Metropolitan/Henry Holt

Review Posted Online: Aug. 17, 2020

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 1, 2020

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THE BOOK OF GENESIS ILLUSTRATED

An erudite and artful, though frustratingly restrained, look at Old Testament stories.

The Book of Genesis as imagined by a veteran voice of underground comics.

R. Crumb’s pass at the opening chapters of the Bible isn’t nearly the act of heresy the comic artist’s reputation might suggest. In fact, the creator of Fritz the Cat and Mr. Natural is fastidiously respectful. Crumb took pains to preserve every word of Genesis—drawing from numerous source texts, but mainly Robert Alter’s translation, The Five Books of Moses (2004)—and he clearly did his homework on the clothing, shelter and landscapes that surrounded Noah, Abraham and Isaac. This dedication to faithful representation makes the book, as Crumb writes in his introduction, a “straight illustration job, with no intention to ridicule or make visual jokes.” But his efforts are in their own way irreverent, and Crumb feels no particular need to deify even the most divine characters. God Himself is not much taller than Adam and Eve, and instead of omnisciently imparting orders and judgment He stands beside them in Eden, speaking to them directly. Jacob wrestles not with an angel, as is so often depicted in paintings, but with a man who looks not much different from himself. The women are uniformly Crumbian, voluptuous Earth goddesses who are both sexualized and strong-willed. (The endnotes offer a close study of the kinds of power women wielded in Genesis.) The downside of fitting all the text in is that many pages are packed tight with small panels, and too rarely—as with the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah—does Crumb expand his lens and treat signature events dramatically. Even the Flood is fairly restrained, though the exodus of the animals from the Ark is beautifully detailed. The author’s respect for Genesis is admirable, but it may leave readers wishing he had taken a few more chances with his interpretation, as when he draws the serpent in the Garden of Eden as a provocative half-man/half-lizard. On the whole, though, the book is largely a tribute to Crumb’s immense talents as a draftsman and stubborn adherence to the script.

An erudite and artful, though frustratingly restrained, look at Old Testament stories.

Pub Date: Oct. 19, 2009

ISBN: 978-0-393-06102-4

Page Count: 224

Publisher: Norton

Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010

Kirkus Reviews Issue: Sept. 15, 2009

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