O’Donnell, a former political correspondent at Bloomberg, debuts with a wrenching family story that spreads across much of the landscape of World War II.
The principal figure in the story is Inge, the author’s grandmother, who died in 2017; throughout the author’s youth, Inge was reticent, even secretive, about her experiences during the war. “Silence has always dominated women’s experience of war,” writes the author. Inge’s experiences, she writes, comprise “a story of love and family, of a girl from a vanished land who lived through a time when Europe, and its humanity, collapsed.” Inge and her family lived comfortably in the Prussian town of Königsberg (now Kaliningrad, Russia) near the Baltic Sea. The author follows the family—and some of their acquaintances and intimates—through the war and after, chronicling the many horrors they experienced, including displacement, poverty, violence, and, finally, their eventual restoration. O’Donnell’s narrative technique is engaging. She intercuts her family’s experiences with her own as she relentlessly pursued their stories. She traveled to all the key sites, interviewed relatives and scholars, and dug through libraries and archives, including her own family’s. “There’s something about physically seeing places that drives home the reality of the past,” she writes. O’Donnell’s many discoveries included letters, photographs (many of which she includes with the text), and records of all sorts. Gradually, Inge opened up about her past, and we learn that it has some dark corners. Her youthful lover impregnated her, but his father would not permit a marriage, so he left her and went off to war. O’Donnell also discovered a number of key elements of Inge’s history after her death. The author, a graceful, eloquent writer, follows a trail that sometimes takes her through deeply troubling terrain, and she amply reveals the cruelty and compassion that characterize times of war.
Haunting family stories that serve as a metaphor for human suffering everywhere.