A forceful but at times muddled call to prune the weeds from your life.
An inspirational guide focuses on finding your inner drive.
Akinyemi’s book is a short collection of his thoughts on various aspects of the world today and the ways his readers can navigate them toward a richer fulfillment of their dreams. More than simply dreaming is required, a fact that the author asserts is often overlooked. “Many times, people envy your result,” he writes. “They want the product, but want to bypass the process.” He frequently concentrates on the process in the course of his manual, stressing the need to overcome the tendency to just dream: “We must go beyond being dreamers to becoming action-takers.” Along these lines, he advocates that his readers rid themselves of what he calls parasitic relationships, comparing unhealthy bonds to a virus in the body. He asks his readers not to be afraid of their mistakes but rather to embrace them as potential learning opportunities. He also underscores the value of staying focused and avoiding distractions in the pursuit of goals (“There are times I want to go out and have fun or just watch Netflix,” he confesses, “but I don’t, because I have to write or invest my time in something more beneficial to my career”). Akinyemi’s persistent note of encouraging optimism will be a boon to many of his readers, who will find some useful nuggets in these pages. But much of his advice will be intensely familiar to readers of self-help and motivational books of this kind. In addition, they will often encounter blandly written truisms conveyed as deep insights: “Evaluating our dreams from time to time will help us determine if we could achieve them either in the short term or in the long term.” And the author’s railings against “woke culture” and his frequent allusions to his own greatness (“People like me…are not celebrated enough”) feel like distractions from the guide’s central thesis of self-actualization.
A forceful but at times muddled call to prune the weeds from your life.Pub Date: Sept. 8, 2022
ISBN: AWAKEN YOUR INNER LI
Page Count: 93
Publisher: The Roaring Lion Newcastle
Review Posted Online: July 3, 2024
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.
The late actor offers a gentle guide for living with more purpose, love, and joy.
Mixing poetry, prescriptive challenges, and elements of memoir, Heche (1969-2022) delivers a narrative that is more encouraging workbook than life story. The author wants to share what she has discovered over the course of a life filled with abuse, advocacy, and uncanny turning points. Her greatest discovery? Love. “Open yourself up to love and transform kindness from a feeling you extend to those around you to actions that you perform for them,” she writes. “Only by caring can we open ourselves up to the universe, and only by opening up to the universe can we fully experience all the wonders that it holds, the greatest of which is love.” Throughout the occasionally overwrought text, Heche is heavy on the concept of care. She wants us to experience joy as she does, and she provides a road map for how to get there. Instead of slinking away from Hollywood and the ridicule that she endured there, Heche found the good and hung on, with Alec Baldwin and Harrison Ford starring as particularly shining knights in her story. Some readers may dismiss this material as vapid Hollywood stuff, but Heche’s perspective is an empathetic blend of Buddhism (minimize suffering), dialectical behavioral therapy (tolerating distress), Christianity (do unto others), and pre-Socratic philosophy (sufficient reason). “You’re not out to change the whole world, but to increase the levels of love and kindness in the world, drop by drop,” she writes. “Over time, these actions wear away the coldness, hate, and indifference around us as surely as water slowly wearing away stone.” Readers grieving her loss will take solace knowing that she lived her love-filled life on her own terms. Heche’s business and podcast partner, Heather Duffy, writes the epilogue, closing the book on a life well lived.
A sweet final word from an actor who leaves a legacy of compassion and kindness.Pub Date: Jan. 24, 2023
ISBN: 9781627783316
Page Count: 176
Publisher: Viva Editions
Review Posted Online: Feb. 6, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 1, 2023
The Stoics did much better with the much shorter Enchiridion.
A follow-on to the author’s garbled but popular 48 Laws of Power, promising that readers will learn how to win friends and influence people, to say nothing of outfoxing all those “toxic types” out in the world.
Greene (Mastery, 2012, etc.) begins with a big sell, averring that his book “is designed to immerse you in all aspects of human behavior and illuminate its root causes.” To gauge by this fat compendium, human behavior is mostly rotten, a presumption that fits with the author’s neo-Machiavellian program of self-validation and eventual strategic supremacy. The author works to formula: First, state a “law,” such as “confront your dark side” or “know your limits,” the latter of which seems pale compared to the Delphic oracle’s “nothing in excess.” Next, elaborate on that law with what might seem to be as plain as day: “Losing contact with reality, we make irrational decisions. That is why our success often does not last.” One imagines there might be other reasons for the evanescence of glory, but there you go. Finally, spin out a long tutelary yarn, seemingly the longer the better, to shore up the truism—in this case, the cometary rise and fall of one-time Disney CEO Michael Eisner, with the warning, “his fate could easily be yours, albeit most likely on a smaller scale,” which ranks right up there with the fortuneteller’s “I sense that someone you know has died" in orders of probability. It’s enough to inspire a new law: Beware of those who spend too much time telling you what you already know, even when it’s dressed up in fresh-sounding terms. “Continually mix the visceral with the analytic” is the language of a consultant’s report, more important-sounding than “go with your gut but use your head, too.”
The Stoics did much better with the much shorter Enchiridion.Pub Date: Oct. 23, 2018
ISBN: 978-0-525-42814-5
Page Count: 580
Publisher: Viking
Review Posted Online: July 30, 2018
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 15, 2018
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