MEESHA MAKES FRIENDS

Meesha can make lots of things, but she hasn’t yet learned to make friends.

Meesha can make “pictures out of numbers…and pictures out of sounds” and sometimes “out of both.” But making friends eludes her. She tries, but she doesn’t know what to say or when to say it. Discouraged, she decides to create her own friends, using paints, scissors, and glue. Her new friends are fun and easy to be around. One day, her mom tells her they are going to a party. Meesha is worried. And at first, her fears come true. The party is “noisy, chaotic, and unpredictable,” and she doesn’t know how to join in. So she finds a quiet corner and begins creating friends of her own again. But this time, her created friends lead to making friends with other children. A grayscale color scheme with judicious use of reds and blues makes visual Meesha’s experiences of isolation and an expanding social world. Expressive faces and energetic lines compose scenes children can absorb and make meaning of while they listen. Without labels or categories, this story puts words and pictures to feelings and traits that are difficult to articulate and explain, making this book helpful both for children who can relate to Meesha’s experience and for those who don’t understand such feelings. Meesha is a brown girl among a multiracial cast of children.

Build empathy and self-understanding with this simple, compassionate book.